“Every human thought, word, or deed is based on fear or love. Fear is the energy which contracts, closes down, draws in, hides, hoards, harms. Love is the energy which expands, opens up, sends out, reveals, shares, heals. You have free choice about which of these to select.”
Neale Donald Walsch, Conversations with God
To understand the things i am going to try to explain to you, wont be easy. most people are an aware of whats coming, not to mention, the system of beliefs and lifestyles we have been enduring. when i say induring, i mean that what is considered success in a relationship, is hard to achieve in the part of existence we are in.
For me to go further, i have to try to explain Duality,Bi-polar, yin and yang. this, your life, is about your soul and its striving to achieve balance, which in return, brings peace and love. nothing else.
Duality
1. the state or quality of being two or in two parts; dichotomy
2. (General Physics) physics the principle that a wave-particle duality exists in microphysics in which wave theory and corpuscular theory are complementary. The propagation of electromagnetic radiation is analysed using wave theory but its interaction with matter is described in terms of photons. The condition of particles such as electrons, neutrons, and atoms is described in terms of de Broglie waves
the earth, for the last 13000 years, has been this lower state of frequency that witholds us from our true potential as human beings. we are all living in a lower vibration in dimentions, you call that 3d.
in 3d we are here to learn. this entire time has been for your souls evolution. in all practicality, what you are doing in your life now is all about you balancing your self.
you, because you are in 3d, have to battle against ego and the way it is controlling you. if you have a stuggle in a relationship or anything in your life, it is caused by that ego control. in order for you to understand that, i will post a definition of ego....
ego.
Ego.
1. the “I” or self of any person; a person as thinking, feeling, and willing, and distinguishing itself from the selves of others and from objects of its thought.
2.
Psychoanalysis. the part of the psychic apparatus that experiences and reacts to the outside world and thus mediates between the primitive drives of the id and the demands of the social and physical environment.
so, your ego is telling your heart, things cant just be easy. it controls you by making you look for the bad in everything. it gives you jealousy, anger, lust, rage, fear, insecurity and lower self esteem. it takes a diamond and makes it seem that there has to be a flaw. a non controlling ego, only makes you see the highlights and details. it reassures you after you have made an evaluation with you heart not your mind.
its hard to see what im trying to say unless you think about the bigger picture. if you think about your souls goal.
You are all multidimensional beings, and 3d is only a small part of your reality. in other lives, future you, might already be married. in my case, it is a fact that i am. in this life i have had relationships, but never marriage or kids. but i dont let that bother me because i can understand that 3d is just a shred of my real life.
i believe that every soul has a soul mate. i also believe that that soulmate and you or i, travel from life to life and planet to planet, playing tag.
so as far as here in 3d, i am just supposed to have fun. if you follow the law of one or oneness, you will totally understand this.
yin and yang are one as your soul is. we all come from one as a collection of fragmented souls. creating indiviality. we come togeth with another part of our soul as a soul mate. then you are balanced. the line in the middle of yin and yang is that balance, usually as offspring. the thing that connects you.
So,in duality, it is you against your ego. weather that be your own or the one that you love.
when i think of this life, i see every girl that i was ever with as a version of my soul mate. so in thinking that, each girl had her purpose in educating me for my souls growth. there is nothing that can make me mad when it comes to me being single. i choose not to ruin my balance inside with what i know.
So, if you are with a person that is making you unhappy, find out why, but remember, check your ego at the door. take your fears and jealousy out of the picture. take the money and material things away from what you and your mate deal with, which is nothing but the love you originally had with that person. under everything that makes us human and thinking that we may lose something, there is nothing but love.
In closing, i want to tell you a little bit about the very near future...
everything we know is going to change. the dark energy that has been controlling this planet is on the way out. with that, the frequency of the planet is getting higher. that means that there wont be room for the things in life that make us live in fear and doubt. the earth is going from 3d into 4 and 5d. all of the laws that we know will change, society we change for the better, the stress of money, which cause the main malfunction in everything, especially relationships, and there will not be jealousy or hatred anywhere.
so if you are having difficulties with another person, chances are that person is a reflection of your ego. face it and get unattached from its control. if that means be alone do it. if you can make peace with it, do it. look beyond the ego and see the love in everything.